Are you one of those people who think you are often unfortunate – no matter how hard you try? Do you feel that you are constantly being set back by misfortune? Do you feel sometimes that the whole universe just looking to get you down?
But let me tell you something … Your luck is not a notch better or worse than all sorts of other people. It just sometimes feels just like that. It will probably also be happy to know that there are several things you can do to remove this feeling of an accident.
Keep up with the feeling that what happens in your life due to lack of luck, fate, supernatural powers, other people or something outside yourself.
Psychologists call it externally control center . It is when you believe that nobody – or very small – say in what happens to one. Because of this, then either they hope for the best, or passive and resigned to receive whatever comes. While they complain that it does not match their hopes.
The most successful people have the opposite perspective on life. They have what is called an internal control center.
They believe that what happens in their lives are completely or almost completely up to them. And they know that when something happens in their lives so it is not the event itself is the most important, but their reaction to the event.